By Cameron Huddleston, Former Online Editor July 24, 2009 My colleague Erin Burt recently wrote about 20 Ways to Waste Your Money, and one reader wrote in to add her own suggestion: weddings. She argued that no couple should start their life together in debt by going overboard with an extravagant ceremony. We couldn't agree more.Although the average cost of a wedding in 2009 is expected to be 6% less than a year ago, it still tops $20,000. But you don't have to dig yourself that deep into debt to make your nuptials fabulous. In 6 Easy Ways to Save $10,000 on Your Wedding, Kiplinger's Personal Finance reporter Stacy Rapacon shares several cost-cutting tips she picked up while planning her own wedding. And she provides tips on haggling your way to a frugal ceremony in Wedding Bells on a Budget.